Doctors

I think it's funny going to the doctor ecspecially if you have a family doctor that you see with all of your problems. There's just this weird relationship you have with them. Like you can say one word and they know exactly what you mean cause they supposedly know you so well. Then you can talk about anything like you guys are best friends. I always seem to leave the doctor a little happier knowing that I have that kind of relationship with my doctor.

Which makes me go into my job. I work at The Views, it's 3 nursing homes in a row on F avenue, as a CNA. I just can't even explain the relationships I have with the residents I take care of. I just want to say I love my job there, it's so comforting and fun that it just takes all of my worries away when I go in. Anyway I have different relationships with each resident cause each resident is different. I know how each one works just within the first couple of months I've worked there. As usual I seem to have a stronger relationship with the females cause we just understand eachother. There are very few males at the buildings but most of them are just simple cares where there isn't much talking but with the few that get a little more attention, we just joke around and have fun with the day. Sometimes I wonder if the residents really see us as workers or if they see us as one of their own. I'm not sure but there are some residents that I am closer to than others just cause our personalities click.

Do you have relationships like this at your job?

Changes

As a follower of One cute little "dimple", I noticed she had written about changes. She had stated that everyday we have to make life changing decisions whether it is what to wear or what to eat or what to do, but then we also have to make huge decisions that will change your life forever. I feel her on that.

I want to relate this to relationships. As we all get older we have to face the decision of whether we are going to move out or not. If we do, we decide to make the relationship change with our parents. As we are excited to finally get freedom, they are dreading the move and letting their "baby" go.

Then there are the relationships with lovers. There are so many decisions to make inside of a love relationship. Like whether you can trust them, if you want to marry them, if you really want to take the chance of hanging out with another male/female. There's so many and in just an instant those decisions can change your life forever. I'm in the middle of one of these decisions. I'm hoping it will change in a good way but we'll see.

How many times have you had to make a life decision? Did it change for the good? Let me know if you need some advice in making a decision.