Thursday, April 9, 2009

Sexual Abuse


I hate talking about this issue cause it happens with everyone. Men, Women, children, probably even animals who knows. There are so many stories out there of people getting sexually abused these days. Mainly little kids and then that sad part is they are getting murdered. That's mainly why I hate talking about it.
The main thing about sexual abuse is the word consent. If you give consent to someone to have sex with you or even if you don't say yes but you just let it happen, you can't run afterwards and yell help. If you were to start to let it happen but then tell the man to stop and he doesn't you can probably go for him.
Women are the main victims of sexual abuse. Men are just too greedy and want what they see and if they can't have it, they will get it. That's mainly what they think but once their caught they can't believe they were thinking it.
I personally don't think men can even be sexually abused. They have to let it happen. I could see it by another man but if they were to say a woman sexually abused them, I couldn't see it, I mean the man has to be "ready" to even make the woman feel good. I guess it happens though.
Now children...sad sad sad. I can't believe how people can do it. Even their own children! The sad part about it is children don't know how to make it stop. They are not strong enough mentally or physically. A man can rape a young girl and he could tell her not to tell or he will kill her and they really believe it. They could go years and years before realizing what they could do about it. That's the sad part.
Another part of sexual abuse is just the fact that a man over the age of 18 could have sex with a woman under the age of 18 and that woman's parents find out and they want the man to get in trouble. The girl has to go with her parents or she won't have anybody and the man is still going to get in trouble. Maybe even probation, many get prison time.
I heard a story about a man that traveled across Illinois border to have sex with a 12 year old girl when he was 23, they met online and decided to meet.....3 times... and the next thing you know he got a hotel room for them to stay in one night. Anyway, he got 10 years for the abuse, traveling across the border and he was already talking to another under age girl on the internet when police arrested him.
See what I mean when I say sad. The things people do these days just for a little action. Jeez...get a girlfriend and hide out for a couple days if your that desperate.

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